加藤諦三在他的書《你不必活給別人看》指出，“為了維持虛僞的人際關係，就會犧牲自我本來的感受方式與思考方式。 像這樣的僞裝自我，漸漸就會變得不知道自己本來是怎麽樣的人”。 你呢，你到底有沒有爲了一些你以爲被活出真我更重要的利益而迷失了自我？ 加藤諦三繼續說，“若不知道自己想要什麽，只會想著要別人喜愛，會陷入惡性循環”。 由於迷失了自我而不知道自己到底想要什麽，而以爲也不斷地尋求別人的認同和喜愛，結果自己永遠都不會覺得滿足和安全。 我需要尋思，到底我是在活給别人看，還是為自己而活，更也是因著和爲了上帝而活呢？
A little walk for a big problem! On February 20, I’m walking in the Coldest Night of the Year – a winter fundraiser for people in my community who need my support. I’m walking for maybe an hour or two at most – a little walk, really – but it’s a big deal for the people we’re supporting. Would…
In Thick Nhat Hanh’s book “nothing is something”, he wrote, “There are so many wonderful things in the world. You body is a wonder. The flower is a wonder. The starts are wonders. If you only notice the unpleasant things, that’s a pity. Even the things that don’t look beautiful at first are wonders. A…